I have a theory that the best way to communicate is often the simplest way - to listen, to look and see the body language conveyed, to receive the communication. And, then to consider what it is that I want to offer in return. Is it life-affirming for that other? Is it helpful or hurtful? Simple doesn't necessarily mean easy. It takes some thought and attention.
In our middle-school youth programming, we have a phrase we often use to remind one another of the importance of what/how we say what we say:
In our middle-school youth programming, we have a phrase we often use to remind one another of the importance of what/how we say what we say:
"There is tremendous power in your words."
It's a bit like the first of The Four Agreements,
"Use your words impeccably."
Sometimes the simplest of communications we can offer are bumper stickers. Really, I think that! I just love seeing a car with bumper stickers - a form of communicating who the person is that is driving that car and what' important to them. I've been known to get a little too close to other cars so I can read what their bstickers say. So, it was exciting to me today to get a free bumper sticker that communicates something that I feel is pretty important - care for the earth. The message I received in the email was from a friend who said
"I am part of a growing movement mad up of people from diverse faith traditions, joining together as a moral voice for climate protection. When you add your name to a simple statement to Washington that we are praying, acting and voting for climate protection, Interfaith Power & Light will send you a free sticker."
Well, I think being part of that kind of communication - encouraging prayer and thoughtful living, caring for God's creation is pretty worthwhile. And, hey - the bumper sticker is pretty cool looking as well. If you're interested, click on the logo below (not the bumper sticker - I couldn't find an image to paste here) and you can get yourself on - for free.
Diana, I always appreciate what you have to say in these posts. You took the idea of a bumper sticker and made it about more than that ... into an issue of thoughtful communication.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I hope I "listen, look and see the body language conveyed, and receive" next time I cam communicated to before responding.